Bear with it!

It's going to finish in a week.Just endure and let it gone through easily!

LOV3

Mary and John's story is familiar.

"I hate you -- get out of my life!" she said when he finally arrived. She was furious about his coming home two hours late to a cold dinner on the table. The candles had burned out, and she ate alone. This was not the first time he stood her up. You'd think she would learn! (You'd think he would learn!)

She loved him so much she was enraged, and told him she wanted a divorce and for him to leave and never come back! Obviously to John, Mary no longer loved him, so he left, hurt and upset, and spent the night elsewhere. Mary was even more hurt from his staying away all night.

Of course, she loved him very much. She understood that. But how could she love him and hate him at the same time? She wondered, and he wondered, and with no clear answer they drifted apart.

She didn't understand that love is more than a feeling of pleasure. Love is also an emotional investment. Mary's anger meant that John was very important to her.Otherwise she wouldn't care at all. Anger is an inevitable feeling in any relationship . . . but you have to know how to use the energy to turn upsets into opportunities.

The truth is, many people are confused about how to have a close relationship that works. . . .

. . .and no wonder. . .

There are thousands of families out there that model for their kids how not to be loving with their husband or wife. They may want to know the "Secret of loving relationships ". . . but all they can do is the best they learned from their own parents about how to get along with others. . . .

Love Means Treating Others Well

How to have harmonious relationships is not a mystery. The first meaning of love has to do with how you treat the person you care about. Creating a close, loving relationship is not actually so difficult to understand! How to do it can be learned. In fact, it has to be learned by everyone who knows how to sanctify their relationship rather than pollute it.

• Anyone can do it, and there is no need to sit at the feet of a "guru," spend thousands on training workshops, or give up and settle for doing without the love you want.. . .
  
• It all comes down to the simple, basic rules of listening, understanding, and empathizing with what is important to your loved one. Once you understand how treating others in loving ways works, your relationship cannot fail because of you.

Now, here's a book about the meaning of love that will show you the foundation on which to build a deeply caring relationship . . .

The Meaning of Love is based on the proven principles and methods that are currently being used by those couples who succeed in their relationships. The other 55% who fail in their marriages use the methods that poison and destroy their relationships.

Love Means Pleasure

When couples treat each other well, they delight in each other, and love means pleasure, deep emotional enjoyment of each other.

• Sexual pleasure is only that, and does not create emotional intimacy. You don't have to settle for temporary enjoyment as all you can have. You can go beyond to find the emotional satisfaction that you've always wanted.
  
• Don't waste time thinking sex is the answer. Learn from what others know . . . that acceptance and affirmation of oneself and others creates the emotional delight that can be expressed with sex.

The experts who understand what works have one thing in common. . . they know that couples who succeed have the same problems as couples who fail. . . the difference is in how they deal with their problems when they are not enjoying each other.

Does your husband or wife (or significant other):

• Criticize you about little things?
  
• Seem less interested in you than before?
  
• Put you off when it comes to physical contact?

Here is a manual that tells you exactly what others do to get the positive results that you want in your own relationship. You don't have to figure it all out on your own from scratch.

You have a description of what really works and what doesn't when it comes to close, emotionally satisfying, loving relationships.

Love Means Caring: Emotional Investment

Sharing life activities and personal information creates intimacy and emotional connection. Over time, caring grows and your emotional investment in the other deepens, even when all is not "rosy" and pleasurable. We love because we find our emotional match in the other person, that which makes us feel more whole. We have found a "soul mate" and gradually become more and more emotionally and spiritually connected to the other person.

Fear is what gets in the way of caring. But you don't have to suffer in silence.Using the principles in this book, you can reverse what may seem irreversible, including:

• Fear of asking for what you want.
  
• Finding yourself reacting defensively when you don't want to do so.
  
• Being critical of your partner or yourself.
  
• Attempting to control your partner.
  
• Fear of being rejected.
  

You Can Make Your Relationship More Loving -- Today

The Meaning of Love explains how love based on need fulfillment usually has serious limitations, but identifies the one need we should continue to nurture. . .

I have put it together for you in one place, covering the things couples do to poison their relationship, and showing the positive alternatives to replace what doesn't work.

Here are a few of the questions addressed . . .

• "What are the three meanings of love that create confusion when one is true and one or two of the others are not?
  
  
• "What is the one emotional need for love that we never outgrow?"
  
  
• "What are the three ways that sex is often used to create intimacy in a relationship?"
  
  
• "What is the most effective way to use sex to cement emotional intimacy?"
  
  
• "What is the meaning of love that satisfies your soul and connects most deeply to the one you love?"
  
  
• "What is the most effective technique for resolving disagreements, and how do you do it?"
  
  
• Plus, there's much more covered . . .

~from http://www.anthospublishing.com/books/meaningoflove

Paparazzi!

미치 미치겠어 미치겠어 내가 왜왜왜왜 이러는지 몰라 몰라 마마마마 마치 마술같이 너에게에에에 빠져버렸어 렸어 눈치코치 없이 눈치 없이 자꾸 왜왜왜왜 네 곁을 맴 돌고 돌고 너너너너 너만 자꾸만 난 찾게 돼에에에에 바보같이 이이이 나 쳐다볼 때까지 나 사랑할 때까지 멈추지 않을래 널 감시 할래 내가 너의 Fan이 돼줄래 I’m a 파파파파라치 파파라치 매일 널 따라 다니지 I’m gonna watch gonna watch 넌 언제나 my super star I’m a 파파파파라치 파파라치 너너너 어디를 가든지 I’m gonna watch gonna watch 내 눈을 피해 숨지 못하지 파파라치 불안 불안해서 불안해서 자꾸 예예예예 예감들의 혼란 곤란 너너너너 너만 자꾸만 난 찾게 돼에에에 바보가 됐어 됐어 네가 네가 없음 네가 없음 왠지 하하하루 종일 미치겠음 겠음 더더더더 더는 더 이상은 못 참아아아아 숨바꼭질질질 나 쳐다볼 때까지 나 사랑할 때까지 멈추지 않을래 널 감시 할래 내가 너의 Fan이 돼줄래 I’m a 파파파파라치 파파라치 매일 널 따라 다니지 I’m gonna watch gonna watch 넌 언제나 my super star I’m a 파파파파라치 파파라치 너너너 어디를 가든지 I’m gonna watch gonna watch 내 눈을 피해 숨지 못하지 파파라치 Yeah ERIC’s in the building uh huh oh huh 2011 Let’s get’ em 빠져들어 ERIC의 미로 SUPERSTAR is my middle name It’s gettin’ bitter 밀어내도 들이밀어 파파라치 수많은 eyeballs 본체만체 또 잘난 체 It’s comin’ at you big avalanche Now stop that 다 전부 빌어줄게 건투 one two 자 시작해봐 That’s what they gonn’ do I’m a 파파파파라치 파파라치 매일 널 따라 다니지 I’m gonna watch gonna watch 넌 언제나 my super star I’m a 파파파파라치 파파라치 너너너 어디를 가든지 I’m gonna watch gonna watch 내 눈을 피해 숨지 못하지 파파라치

crazy, i’m going crazy I’m going crazy I’m not sure why, why, why, why we are doing this just now I don’t know, don’t know ma-ma-ma-ma magic, it was like magic I was was so into into into into you I realized without notice, without notice I keep saying, why, why, why, why do you turn away away I I I I I want to keep you for my very own I find out in the end, end, end, that this this this is foolish I’ll look at you until you see I’ll love you until you see I can’t stop Until you realize I would be you biggest fan I’m a papapaparazzi paparazzi I’m going to follow you every day I’m gonna watch gonna watch You’re always my superstar I’m a papapaparazzi paparazzi I’m I’m I’m going to go where you go I’m gonna watch gonna watch You will never escape my sight, never Anxious, I’ve become anxious, become anxious You keep saying yes, yes, yes, yes, you seem confused I I I I keep seeing only you Once of us us seems to be more and more like a fool You’re, you’re, not like yourself, not like youself Vaguely, as da-da-da-days go by you know, know more, more, more, more, no more, I can’t do this anymore more I can’t bear bear bear this game if hide and seek seek anymore I’ll look at you until you see I’ll love you until you see I can’t stop Until you realize I would be you biggest fan I’m a papapaparazzi paparazzi I’m going to follow you every day I’m gonna watch gonna watch You’re always my superstar I’m a papapaparazzi paparazzi I’m I’m I’m going to go where you go I’m gonna watch gonna watch You will never escape my sight, never Yeah ERIC’s in the building uh huh oh huh 2011 Let’s get’em Let them fall into Eric’s labyrinth SUPERSTAR is my middle name It’s gettin’ bitter as they push me to face the paparazzi Numerous eyeballs watch me as I strut down the aisle It’s comin’ at you big avalanche Now stop that All wishes are possible one two Now Let’s try That’s what they gonn’ do I’m a papapaparazzi paparazzi I’m going to follow you every day I’m gonna watch gonna watch You’re always my superstar I’m a papapaparazzi paparazzi I’m I’m I’m going to go where you go I’m gonna watch gonna watch You will never escape my sight, never

Tudiooooo~

My eyes are gonna pop out soon!Thanks to Lab reports,Assignments and Tests! =)

Issue?

Most lecturers are bloody buggers!Only a few of them who truly understand students.I love those who understand me! =)

Best Poem

给劫匪里强：

开门进班迟了五分钟 打开电脑又一个五分钟 点名...另加十五分钟

break再来个五分钟 两个小时一百二十分钟 就这样少了三十分钟

你叫绝吠里墙 墙壁的墙 不是很强的强 严肃的模样 讲课声调平平没有起伏荡漾

这里是讲堂 我们来上课不是要你带我梦境入梦乡

你的功力很强 大家钓鱼钓到开了渔场 不去当催眠大师真是浪费个才郎

与其说你坐在椅子上 不如说你皮裤粘在椅子上 自己按slide 自己讲 自己爽

课上完一堂 白板字没有一行 大家脑袋空空荡荡

你的知识绝对很强 高智商 experience满满很长很长

但教书这项 你可以打包 回家好好想想 因为你真的太盲

帮帮忙 别让我们死在你的手上...

Take a deep breathe~

Assignments,Tests and Lab reports will start crushing in start from tomorrow!

I believe that 2 weeks will pass in no time!

~GOD bless me~

Back to childhood

Do You Know That?

Sanctum!

It is now the best movie I've ever watched!!!It is definitely worth to buy a ticket and sit inside the cinema to enjoy the almost 2 hours movie!!!!It is kinda hard for me to describe how best it is.Therefore, i will just use this to describe it.

IT IS FUCKING AWESOME!!!!!!!!!!!

=)

You are the best thing in my life!

Running & Running

Yeah

Like this

It’s MBLAQ

Let’s go

내게 기회가 온다 내 눈을 피하지마

어차피 만날 운명 피할 수 없는 숙명

내 머리속엔 하나

그건 바로 my chance

모든 걸 던져버려 넌 아직 날 몰라

넌 나를 찾아봐 더이상 전화를 내리고

내 곁에 다가와 그날이 오기를 기다려

저 뒤쳐진 널 난 바라보면

내 입가엔 미소만이 남겨질뿐

널 붙잡는다 맘 되새긴다

네 감각이 빠르게 돌아가도

넌 내겐 안될 뿐이다

꿈도 사랑도 이젠 지워져 가는걸까

아니면 추억만 남긴 쓰레기가 될까

명쾌한 답은 없지 이젠 날 믿어봐

한번의 실수조차 있을 순 없는 걸

넌 나를 찾아봐 아직도 주위만 서성여

내 곁에 다가와 그날이 오기를 기다려

저 뒤쳐진 널 난 바라보면

내 입가엔 미소만이 남겨질뿐

널 붙잡는다 맘 되새긴다

네 감각이 빠르게 돌아가도

넌 내겐 안될 뿐이다

저 멀리 희미한 듯 난 동공에

너의 얼굴이 보이고 내 심장이 뛰는걸

서두르지 말고 네게 다가가네

너는 나의 운명 yeah

Woo la 잡힐 듯 다가가면

Woo baby 내 손을 피해가네

Woo la 억울한 도망자여

Woo baby 나를 잡을 순 없어

Just Once

단 한번도 내 맘이 편한

그런 날이없는걸

피하는 자와 쫓는자

시간을 넘고 넘기는 Running out

널 초월하겠어

이제는 널 내 손에 담겠어

나만의 생각 준칙이

미래에 널 지배할 순간임

Dear GOD

I will take that as a test from you k? =)

왜 (Keep Your Head Down)

Keep your head down U-Know time (Max)

You know what time it is?

This is return of the king

(모두 끝나버렸다) 난 시작도 안 해봤는데

(헤어져 버렸다) 난 이유조차 못 듣고

주변 사람들 모두 하나같이 날보고

너 왜 그래 왜 그래 왜 그래 난 이미 나쁜 놈

(죄라면) 널 사랑한 게 죄라면

(그게 죄라면) 진실했다는 게 죄라면

(나는 Keep it low 나는 Keep it low)

난 참아내고 내 자릴 지켜

(Keep your head down)

넌 정말 예쁘지만 너무 다른 너의 속이 난 너무 두려워

(Keep your head down)

사랑했다 하지만 난 이제 널 놓겠다

(왜?) 날 그렇게 쉽게 떠났니

(왜?) 내가 쉬워 보였던 거니

(왜?) 내 가슴은 찢어지잖아 (왜?)

(왜?) 모두 한순간의 꿈이었다면

(왜?) 바로잡을 시간이 있었다면

(왜?) 제발 네가 행복하길 바랬다 (왜?)

나 언제나 언제나 너를 가진 걸로 충분했고

세상이 뭐래도 같은 꿈을 꿔서 행복했고

지금은 널 보내게 됐지만 어차피 내 길을 갈 뿐이고

(Now I’m just chillin’, Feel like I’m healing)

(늦어버렸다) 넌 다시 돌아갈 수 없단다

(네가 없다면) 난 무너질 거라 믿겠지

예전부터 넌 그건 착각이라고

내가 왜 그래 왜 그래 왜 그래 널 타일렀잖아

Hey 난 정말, 정말 슬펐다 철이 없던 네가

혹시라도 나쁜 사람 만날까 Why? Baby

(Keep your head down)

넌 정말 예뻐 근데 그뿐이야 네 가슴에 중요한 게 없는걸

(Keep your head down)

사랑의 아픔을 참는 가슴에 못 박고

(왜?) 날 그렇게 쉽게 떠났니

(왜?) 내가 쉬워 보였던 거니

(왜?) 내 가슴은 찢어지잖아 (왜?)

(왜?) 모두 한순간의 꿈이었다면

(왜?) 바로잡을 시간이 있었다면

(왜?) 제발 네가 행복하길 바랬다 (왜?)

하, 그렇게 너 사람 갖고 장난, 장난 치지 마라

내 앞에선 요래조래 거짓말만을 늘어놓고

누가 봐도 누가 봐도 넌 정말 이중적이야

(왜왜왜) 수정 같던 마음들이 언제 그렇게 탁해졌니

사랑을 끝냈다 널 보낸 가슴이 텅 비워졌다

하지만 내 미래는 마치 일어나서 웃으라고 손짓한다

너를 보낸다 정말 행복하게 살아 (왜왜왜)

먼 훗날에 먼 훗날에 그냥 편하게 웃고 싶다 하하

(왜?) 왜 (왜?)

(왜?) 사랑을 그렇게 쉽게 놔버리는 너를

(왜?) 누군가 걱정할 거란 생각은 해봤나

(왜?) 네가 놔 버린 게 너는 뭔지

(왜?) 아직 모르는 것 같아

(왜?) 그대로 머물러 나를 지켜봐 (왜?) Yeah

(Keep your head down)

지워졌다, 사라졌다 내 가슴에 네가 죽어 모두 타버렸다

(Keep your head down)

지워졌다, 사라졌다 내 가슴에 네가 죽어 너는 이제 없다

Happy Valentine's Day!!!

It's Valentine's Day again!!!A day off for those who is still single!!!Yay!!!

U got it right!

Its the eve of Valentine's Day!Don't be sad if you are single because GOD is reserving you for someone special! :D

Gawwwww~

I am dead after being abused by a bunch of monster...

Plis!

Tell me how far can i go~

You like it?

Hereafter, in a better world than this,

I shall desire more love and knowledge of you.

LAUGH!

Praying hard!!!

Please accept me and all my troubles will be gone!!!

I'll be going back!

Leaving on tomorrow~Back to my Hell Life!

Ttyl~!

Just watched GREEN HORNET.It was normal!I guess those people just go for JAY CHOU!

Chu 3

CNY celebration mood off~Get ready to go back to KL in less than 4 days!

Chu 2

Bad news strikes!My Sister-In-Law's dad has just passed away in the morning due to stroke~Everyone was down and we have called off the celebration mood early.

Chu 1

The first day of Chinese New Year!!!!HUAT AHHHHHHHHHHHHHH!I stayed at home for the whole day without going any place though....Will go to Grandpa's place on tomorrow!!!I bet that i won't have fun on tomorrow since not all of the cousins will come back.

SIGH~

Chinese New Year Eve!

Yay!Chinese new year in less than 10 minutes!I hereby wish everyone Happy Bunny Year!I hope that i can get everything i want this yearrrrr~
GONG XI FATT CHAI!

What now? V2

What can be worse than getting flu on Chinese New Year?